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Conflict Resolution
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"Proverbs 14:29"
  • Proverbs 14:29; 15:1, 28; 16:32; 19:11; 25:28; 29:11


  • Matt 5:43,44; Romans 8:28,29; Gal 5:16-23


  • James 4:1-3


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What Causes Conflict?
  • Anger
  • Jealously
  • Differences
    • Beliefs
    • Attitudes
    • Feelings
    • Behavior
    • Ideas
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Praise vs.Criticism
  •  Praise
    • Definition: Act of expressing approval or admiration; commendation.
  • Criticism (Constructive)
    • Definition: Judging the quality of the merits; To help or improve.



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Destructive Criticism
  •  Destructive Criticism
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How Are You Doing?
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Praise vs.Criticism
  •  Nation Averages
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Praise vs.Criticism
  •  Nation Averages
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Praise vs.Criticism
  •  Nation Averages
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Conflict: Good or Bad?
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Conflict
  • 5 Responses
    • Withdraw
    • Win
    • Yield
    • Compromise
    • Resolve
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Preparing to Resolve Conflict
  • Casting Your LOT
    • Listen


    • Open


    • Time
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The A, B, C’s
  • A’s of Confession
    • Address everyone involved
    • Avoid if, but and maybe statements
      • Don’t make excuses
    • Admit Specifics
      • Attitude
      • Actions
    • Apologize
      • Conviction from the Holy Spirit
    • Accept the Consequences
    • Alter the Behavior
      • Commitment to changing Harmful Habits
    • Ask for Forgiveness
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The A, B, C’s
  • B’s of Growth
    • Break the Patterns (Hosea 10:12-13)
    • Balance the Scales
      • Set priorities
      • Set boundaries
    • Become who God is calling you to be
      • Christ-like
        • Psalm 94:22, Psalm 118:14,21
    • Build Your Relationships
      • Christ (Rom 15:2; 1Thes 5:11, Jude 1:20)
      • Body of Believers
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The A, B, C’s
  •  C’s of Maturity
    • Caring
    • Communicate
    • Commitment
    • Contentment
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Remember . . .
  •  To have the BEST chance of success, you’ve got to be REAL :
    • B = Bless
    • E = Edify
    • S = Support
    • T = Touch